Last night I had a dream. I feel the need to share it with you today because it illustrates the main point I’ve been trying to make, not only in the last several blog posts, but in all the posts I’ve written here over the last fourteen years. When I decided to write a blog I gave it the title: Matrignosis. It means “mother knowing“, the feminine wisdom of the unconscious. My goal has been to contribute to our awareness of the sickness of a society which, in its conscious emphasis on the masculine principle, has lost its awareness of, and appreciation for, the feminine which has been largely relegated to the unconscious.
Below is my dream and the associations I wrote about it in my journal a few hours ago. I’m sharing it with you because it’s an example of how much we can learn from the rejected aspects of feminine wisdom and how years of committed dreamwork can build a bridge to wholeness.
Dream #5696, November 8 (3 days after Trump beat Kamala in the presidential election)
I’ve written a blog post about the need for social change. I’m sending it to all who write blogs or publish articles, encouraging them to do the same. I question whether I really know how to create social change. And what kind of change?
Associations:
This is a summary of my current state of mind. Synchronistically, a new follower of my blog, Diana, commented on my most recent post yesterday. I read it late last night and decided to wait until this morning to respond so I’d have more time to think about my response. I see now that her comment gave me an opening to address the exact same issue this dream addresses. Here’s what I wrote back to Diana, without remembering that this was the same issue I’d been grappling with in last night’s dream:
“It’s the lack of an ethical stance, of what used to be called ‘character’, in so many politicians and their followers today, that bothers me the most too. Of course, it’s always been that way, but to see it played out on a world scale where the hypocrisy is no longer in the shadows but in full view not only to Americans, but to the whole world, is a shocking display of the brokenness of our society.
My point is that whether our brokenness is caused by capitalism, the education system, a collective mentality of consumerism and materialism, or a combination of these and other factors, it originates not in man-made systems “out there”, but in powerful nature-made psychological realities “in here” that we are unwilling to address in a serious, committed way. Until we wake up to our own brokenness, it is our own shadows that will destroy us and everything we love.
If the other book of mine that you ordered is Dream Theatres of the Soul, you’ll find that it addresses the problem of not remembering our dreams. If we’re looking for a teacher to help us become more self-aware, we’ll find it by working on our dreams. The Self, your dream-maker who knows everything about you, is your inner guide to wholeness.”
This dream and my associations to it are accurate descriptions of the message I have always felt called to share with the world in my writing. I’m awed by how my unconscious Self (sometimes I call it Dream Mother) and conscious waking self are working together in sync.
Art Credit: Etsy. Lucy Campbell Art. With gratitude to Pat.
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4 Responses
Dear Jeanie,
Yes, sadly “The Emperor’s New Clothes” (reimagined now as “The Tyrant in a Toupee!) hypocrisy continues and nobody seems to care. The duplicity is obvious! And although this reality is clear, very clear to people, they choose to accept what they wish to accept … for numerous reasons. I understand, I’ve experienced illusion and delusion frequently myself.
Indeed, your recent dream aligns seamlessly with all that Matrignosis has discussed here since its beginning; the disparity between the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine, within us and in our world. You’re in complete harmony with the Dream Mother! Thank you so much my dear friend and sister crone for your ‘mother-knowing’ and dream wisdom.
Love and light, Deborah
Dear Deborah,
Yes, that’s a good point. Choosing to accept only what we wish to accept, like choosing to believe what we want to believe, is a coping mechanism some of us learn at a young age, especially when we’re very vulnerable in an intolerable situation. I’ve experienced that too. Like projection, it can be very useful and make us feel safe and protected for a while . . . until it no longer works because powerful inner conflicts we don’t want to see cause symptoms like depression, or because an external trauma forces us to see our self-deception. I’m reminded of the turbulent late sixties and early seventies in the U.S. with the assassinations of John and Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King, race riots, and Vietnam War protests, and how they raised our awareness of attitudes and injustices we had conveniently ignored until then. Maybe the future will look back at this election and see it as a turning point in our history. I just hope it turns us in the direction of greater self-knowledge and care for others.
Thank you for your affirming words, dear friend. Jeanie
Your blog’s messages are always clear and accessible, and your dream indicates that a critical point has been reached, necessitating them to be voiced (or shared).
Deborah said well: the people choose to accept what they wish to accept! It might sound unbelievable, but the shadows are no longer hidden but in full view. The catastrophe is that people can’t recognise them!
You provided several examples of what contributes to our brokenness, and I agree with all of them. However, I want to highlight one crucial point: capitalism. I have nothing against having possessions or living a prosperous life; the issue lies with greed and the insatiable desire for more, which makes our society so miserable.
However, I am once again grateful to have learned more from you, my wise teacher. If I recall correctly, Jung once stated something similar: dreams are the doors to our unconscious. Stay well and safe, my dear Jeanie.💖🌹🙏
Thanks, Aladin. I did indeed feel like I needed to share this. And yes, I do not know for sure which socio/economic/political system/ philosophy contributes more to our brokenness, but I agree that greed is certainly a human quality that does, regardless of the country, religion, or system. Like you, I certainly have nothing against having possessions or living a prosperous life!” I only wish all of us could have enough of what we need to bring security, comfort, health, beauty, and love into our lives.
“Thou shalt not covet . . . ” is a commandment that goes waaayy back, suggesting it’s always been a human problem.
Wikipedia says this: “Covetous desires create disorder because they move beyond satisfying basic human needs and “exceed the limits of reason and drive us to covet unjustly what is not ours and belongs to another or is owed to him.”[41] Greed and the desire to amass earthy goods without limit are forbidden as are avarice and the passion for riches and power. “You shan’t covet” means that we should banish our desires for whatever doesn’t belong to us. Never having enough money is regarded as a symptom of the love of money.[42] Obedience to the tenth commandment requires that envy be banished from the human heart. Envy is a capital sin that includes sadness at the sight of another’s goods and the immoderate desire to acquire them for oneself. ”
As Spock said in his Vulcan blessing on Star Trek: “Live well and prosper.”
Jeanie