What’s the Point of the Three Kings?
December 24, 2024
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Those of us raised as Christians know this holiday is about a lot more than rushing about, partying and shopping, and many of us enjoy warm memories and nostalgic feelings this time of year. But why are the moments of love, joy and peace so difficult to find during the holiday season? Where do the feelings of exhaustion, anxiety, disappointment and depression come from? Why do we keep missing the point of Christmas? How can we recapture it?
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Agreed … “spiritual maturity needs psychological awareness” and I would say the reverse is also true. Holism is key. The protagonist in my latest novel is talking to a young woman about their community and says:
“Yes. It is belief in the sacred — that all life, the entire universe is divinely infused and inspired — that best guides our human intellect for the good of all,” Maggie said. “A wise man once said that, ‘the weakness of the human intellect, in its present state, is such, that without the aid of faith what to many would seem to be clearly demonstrated would to others be exceedingly dubious …’ I think that’s an accurate quote. And I would agree. To me it means that humans clearly need spirituality as well as reason to create good in the world. Our founding mothers agreed as well, even if their spirituality was manifest in different ways. Without wonder, mysticism, magic, and faith — the sacred in a total package — we are left with the dry dust of capitalism, consumerism, materialism, and reductionism; we are left with an anthropocentric arrogance that is gradually destroying our bountiful mother earth.”
Maggie’s quote is one I unearthed from a book titled “Spirit of Medieval Philosophy”.
Agreed!
In my opinion, this is Wisdom, with a capital W. One-sided opinions just don’t give us the whole picture or lead us to healing solutions. You can’t dismiss your spiritual nature in the name of Reason and have the kind of cosmic perspective on life that is at the heart of Love. And without love, you only have all the things you mention above, summarized in your term “anthropocentric arrogance that is gradually destroying our bountiful mother earth.”
Thank you. Well said.
I wish you the very best with your latest novel, Darla. It’s always lovely to hear from you. 🙂
Thank you. I so look forward to each of your posts – have missed them tremendously even though I know you’ve been busy completing your book which I’m eager to explore when it is released and am positive it will be marvelous as were your others. Blessings!
I love how you have stated this concept, Jean. Would that more of the world understood and accepted this wisdom.
Thank you, Diane.
You and I are two of a kind in this regard. I think we both have had a huge hunger to understand and express our spiritual and psychological natures. Even when they seemed to be in conflict. And neither of us has been able to settle for developing one side of our inborn potential while neglecting the other. Being open to seemingly conflicting opposites is just what we felt compelled to develop. And the woundedness that so many suffer in youth, plus the pressure to conform to family and societal expectations, makes it much harder to find that middle space of acceptance and understanding no matter what you were born with.
So I guess all we or anyone can do is try our best to see our wounds and share what we have learned about healing ourselves. Maybe if everyone did that, our species would be a lot farther along in our evolutionary growth toward consciousness than we are at this point in time. We all have so much to learn from and teach each other.
Every life is a long and difficult journey…..may we stay open and conscious,
Jeanie
Reblogged this on lampmagician and commented:
A true & worthy word ? Divine is our Path ?❤❤?
Thank you, Aladin. It is, indeed.
And I think you for your wonderful post ??❤❤?
I thank you! It must be written of course ???
Thank you Jeannie, Jack Kornfield expresses it so well … knowledge is good yet experience of the knowledge is what matters. I read something today, forget its source, just a brief something, about matter being in mind and then later from somewhere else another something about mind being in matter.
Yes, my discovery of Jung – all I can say is, thanks heavens! I remember writing an assignment a lonnnnng time ago comparing Jung & Freud. That wasn’t my first exposure to Jung. The South African Ass of Jungian Analysts in Cape Town was already fairly newly set-up and Johannesburg set up its own ‘branch’ whereby we had visiting analysts from Cape Town and abroad. It was not a training ground for analysts as Cape Town was and is. We had our own library and meetings though, dream workshops and other .. Rich indeed and of course, Jung is a life long ‘study’ .. as is one’s own life when integrating the opposites and transcending them, paying attention to dreams …
Thanks, Susan. Yes, this journey has no end. There’s no place where you arrive and then live happily ever after. It’s a process of facing conflicts, integrating, transcending, paying attention to the next conflict, integrating, transcending….just trying to stay as balanced and conscious as we can while moving inexorably into the unknown, making the best choices we can, never knowing for sure if they’re right or not, and trying to love ourselves and others in the process.
What a Mystery. And I agree with Aladin….a divine path and a divine mystery.
Thanks for laying out this essential point. I’m forever grateful that my first spiritual philosophy teacher quickly grasped that his hippie students needed a psychological language so they could develop psychologically while meditating and studying. He chose Jung and astrology, although others were woven in. Both guide my daily guides and still are. So, after almost 50 years of this inner work, the Shadow still shows up and the Wounded One and the Inner Child to raise a little hell. The psychological work along with the spiritual work never ends for long. I hope you have a gentle autumn back in your winter home.
Yup, those three — Shadow, Wounded One, and Inner Child — are part of me too, and of everyone. Knowing that this is what it means to be human eases the discomfort and helps me accept and forgive myself for my flaws. Trying to maintain a perfect persona takes way too much energy! 🙂
Thanks for your always affirming words, Elaine. I wish you a gentle autumn too.
dear and divine Jean ,
Why we do not remember any memory from our Birth till 3 to 4 Years , even what we claim to remember is a constructed memory from pictures and videos and talks we learn and view through our parents .
When we come on this earth we come with oneness or wholeness of our right and left brains or body and soul floating in Harmony on neutral and natural zero state like water , as we can not draw lines on water so there is no memory but experience of Timeless happiness , that is our real search or spiritual truth.
As we grow mind comes in between of our logical brain and emotional brain and ego develops and memory of senses get registered . as we grow we search this lost Timeless Happiness through fulfillment of worldly goals one after another in the hope that achievement of these goals will bring happiness which will match this Timeless happiness we know in our DNA.
Lord Buddha also gone through all different paths , doctrines , teaching , yet no where found glimpse of that spiritual truth or Timeless happiness , finally sat under a tree to realize that timeless happiness was always there and that is our basic nature . that is why in Indian Scriptures God is defined as SAT CHIT ANAND that is Truth Consciousness Bliss.
so understanding of physiology , Psychology , and self knowledge which happens with oneness of Body mind and soul is equally important for spiritual maturity .
ram
PS ; your blog is always a value for time understanding , ..
Dear Ram,
You have supported my blog from almost my very first post I wrote nine years ago. Your understanding and generous-spirited comments have taught me the true meaning of love, unity, and wisdom. It has been a genuine pleasure to be blessed by your knowledge and experience. Thank you.
Although we come from different religious traditions, we seem to have always been on the same path. I think it’s because we could both hear the universal message beneath the surface, and often divisive, doctrines of our different religions. It has been a true blessing to me that we were able to establish a meaningful connection that transcended these divides on the internet.
Thank you for writing and affirming my path. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me and my readers.
With love and blessings always,
Jeanie