What’s the Point of the Three Kings?
Those of us raised as Christians know this holiday is about a lot more than rushing about, partying and shopping, and many of us enjoy warm memories and nostalgic feelings this time of year. But why are the moments of love, joy and peace so difficult to find during the holiday season? Where do the feelings of exhaustion, anxiety, disappointment and depression come from? Why do we keep missing the point of Christmas? How can we recapture it?
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This is wonderfully synchronistic for me, Jeanie, as I am preparing a formal talk for the fall on “Finding The Living God.”
I love it when this happens! I hope this is helpful for your talk! Best, Jeanie
Jean, it would be so lovely if we could live and work together with our beliefs and ideals, however at this moment in time I see us being radically torn apart. There for a while, I actually thought we were coming together. No longer – it breaks my heart.
Hi Gwynn, I know. It’s awfully discouraging right now.
But I think the radical divisiveness may be bringing us together at a deeper level than we’re normally aware of. The extreme rhetoric and emotion coming from both sides of the political spectrum is causing thoughtful people to see and question their own political extremism and see how both sides contribute to the problems, which are more complex than most of us thought. I think we’re beginning to realize at a collective level that there are no simple, either/or solutions, and I’ve seen a bit more willingness from both sides to enter into dialogues that prioritize fairness and truth over party loyalties.
I know the media thrive on the drama, but it’s just this sort of crisis situation that brings forth necessary change. The conflicts are very painful to me too, but as long as there is poverty, ignorance, and injustice in the world, there will be political unrest and rebellion. In the big picture, history shows us that our species is evolving toward greater consciousness, justice, compassion, and love. So instead of letting the chaos get me down, I’m focusing on the new solutions that can come out of all this given enough time……..
May some of them come about in our lifetime!!!
Jean, you make some excellent points. I truly hope a comprehensive and satisfying solution is arrived at so the world can experience some peace of mind.
This is great post and if i may, I will print a few to share.
We are making our way to a stronger body for Bob. Biggest job I ever had. Miss you
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Thank you, my dear friend.
Yes, of course. Share this with as many people as you like.
I’m glad to hear Bob is slowly getting stronger. I can’t imagine how hard it must be for both of you to recover from his catastrophic stroke. It must take all the energy you have to keep pushing forward day after day. I’m so sorry. I miss you too, and wish I could be with you to help.
Stay conscious. 🙂
The reduction of Mystery to a Big Man in the Sky with organised religion broke me when I was younger. Later on, intuiting the ineffable nature of that Mystery brought some peace. The yearning of our species for simple solutions which automatically others perceived differences continues to be our tragedy. We are all part of the Mystery.
Dear Brian,
Seven years ago when I first wrote and posted this piece, you responded with a comment in which you touched on the problem of organized religion’s tendency to organize things into an “us against them mentality,” despite their professed belief in the Mystery of Holy Trinity.
We were on the same page then, and still are. People who do not reflect on the realities of their inner lives tend to “believe” in abstract religious dogma without realizing that their lack of self-knowledge (psychological understanding) prevents them from practicing what they believe and preach. Since then, that tragedy you refer to has escalated to the point that it’s mirrored to us in the daily news. Yet some still don’t see it.
My hope is that your experience of being broken by a repressive religion when you were a boy, (I was in my mid-thirties before I experienced the brokenness), will become more common as a result of these daily reminders until the blinders are removed from so many people that this new awareness becomes common to collective consciousness.
I believe in the sacred Mystery with all my heart. Like you, what I have a problem with is man-made organized religious dogma that unconsciously influences followers to angrily, hatefully, and sometimes violently repress the Mystery of Unity in Multiplicity in the name of their deity. I can’t imagine that this attitude sits well with a god of love.
Thank you for being my friend all these years.
Mystery of Unity in Multiplicity…I see what you did there, MUM.
Thank YOU Jeanie, for your love and friendship and insight.
OMG!!! I did not see that. Totally unconscious! (Thank you, Unconscious Self!) Yes, Matrignosis at its best! Thanks for your astute poetic insight. You don’t miss a trick!!!
Wonderful Post Jean,
I can only speak for myself when I say that I am in awe when standing before creation. From the huge expanse of our universe to the tiny of things that surround us. When I see so much intelligence in creatures, I appreciate that they are the result of the wisdom and the power that designed me. With that said; regardless of what we believe, it would be so wonderful if we could all just appreciate each other and be thoughtful with the diversity we all posses.
Thank you, Fern. Yes, appreciation, thoughtfulness, and respect for diversity would certain go a very long way toward creating the kind of world we’d all like to live in: peaceful, kind, fair, and free!
Lovely to read this Jeannie, thank you. Descartes, Darwin and ‘others’helped to separate things and us into machine like organisms to our great detriment … and of course the political dogma surrounding religions when each as you say has basically the same message of peace love compassion charity – I think and hope that as a species we’re evolving even if things seem pretty dire.
It’s like the old saying, “Two steps forward, one step back.” We learn, we grow a bit, but it’s difficult. So after a while, the temptation to slide back a bit becomes irresistible. But having grown a bit more self-aware, we can never rest completely easy with our shadow’s lapses. So we suffer a bit, for a while, until the conflict becomes so painful that half-reluctantly, we allow our inherent need to grow to re-surface and guide us again.
Unless we don’t. But even when we don’t, our children will learn a little something from our mistakes. Eventually, someone in the family takes up the banner and starts to grow in their own way. It’s a generations-long process. But it accounts for all the changes our generation has seen in the direction of bringing freedom justice to people who many have long feared and hated because they are different from us.
Thank you for your always affirming words, Susan.