What’s the Point of the Three Kings?
Those of us raised as Christians know this holiday is about a lot more than rushing about, partying and shopping, and many of us enjoy warm memories and nostalgic feelings this time of year. But why are the moments of love, joy and peace so difficult to find during the holiday season? Where do the feelings of exhaustion, anxiety, disappointment and depression come from? Why do we keep missing the point of Christmas? How can we recapture it?
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Thanks Jean for this! I try to eat consciously with regard to animal products. I seldom eat meat but so enjoy it when I do, likewise chicken and fish. I think it’s good to know where our food comes from. We can avoid eg Monsanto food stuffs, food that uses palm oil (rain forests destroyed to get to the palm fruit) etc. It’s a small individual protest.
Lovely story of Eleanor giving the helicopter woman her t-shirt! And the guitar player giving you a pick! We were away in the bush this weekend, returned yesterday, and one of the memorable evenings around the fire on a starlit night was a woman playing her guitar and singing country songs – I thought of you.
Hi Susan, I think the “small individual protest” against whatever hurts us counts, just as does the little kindness. We’re all in this sea together; we can’t help but influence one another. Thank you for thinking of me around the fire. I would have loved that! Jeanie
“Joyful participation in the sorrows of the world.” Yes. Thank you, Jean, for sharing your stories and thoughts on both consciousness and balance. 🙂
This phrase has eased a lot of guilt ever since I ran across it in one of Joseph Campbell’s books. Thank you, Catherine, for always being such an open-hearted, receptive listener!
One Buddhist teaching is that all life lives on other life. This is true, whether we’re talking about a whale or a tomato. The question is one of personal morality, for those of us conscious enough to make such decisions. The Middle Way is often best. Remember Goldilocks!
“All life lives on other life.” Thank you for this, Skip. It helps put things in perspective. After all, being too hard on oneself for being human is just another form of inflation, isn’t it? Still chuckling over your last remark. Who knew Goldilocks was such a wise little girl? 🙂
Jeanie, We love you!!! The Kids, Sam and Eleanor!!!!
We love you too, sweet ones! Thanks again.
Jeanie, a blessed Easter for you and family, time for redemption renewal peace and joy.
A question please – I’d like to direct people who respond to my blog to your site: can I use the url http://wp.me/pQzs2-27A. One or two have said about not remembering dreams and I’d like them to have access to your Six-Step Method for Working with Dreams – and all your other posts! I’m not savvy at all about computer stuff but saw a url and I suspect that if I put that link up it should direct?
Thank you and I hope all well .. Susan
A blessed Easter to you and yours too, Susan. This is such a beautiful and hopeful season.
Thank you for sharing my posts with your readers. I think your April series on dreams is wonderful!
I’m afraid I’m probably the least computer-savvy person you know. I tried the link you gave me and it just links to one post: the one about helping people with dreams. However, once your readers arrive there, they can go to any of my other posts by looking through the archives which are posted in the green column to the right. Of course, you can do the same, then copy the addresses of the specific posts you want to link to and post them on your blog. The main address for my blog is http://www.jeanraffa.wordpress.com
Here’s the link to the specific post you want about the 6-step Method for Working with Dreams: https://jeanraffa.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/a-six-step-method-for-working-with-dreams-2/ If you remember any other posts you want to share with your readers, I can probably find them more easily than you, as I have a list of the titles of all my posts on my administration page and I can look them up by titles and then copy their addresses and send them to you. I’m sorry I don’t know an easier method than that.
Jeanie, thank you so much for the links and ways of doing this, so clear. I will attend to this tomorrow or Sunday. Well if you are not so computer savvy, believe me I’m right behind you. I think I’ll use the http://www.jeanraffa.wp.com (with http etc before) and say exactly what you say about the right hand side and that the 6 step method was in January.
Many many thanks …
Have a blessed weekend.
It is interesting that we are examining how and what we eat in the context of who and how we are. Has such a time ever required this ethical process before? Perhaps societies in ecological crisis? This thought-provoking post reminds me of a letter my 95 year old, farming, great-grandmother wrote about slaughtering a cow (at her age). She certainly wasn’t disconnected from her food-source and I’m sure it was ‘organic.’ I’m not sure she would have questioned eating an animal she probably treated compassionately. Have you seen that episode of ‘Portlandia’ where the waitress shows them a photo of the chicken they are about to eat and assures them ‘Colin’ had friends? Great spoof on food concerns going ‘around the bend.’ Cool story about the guitar pick! Sounds like a fun time with your friends.
Hi Steven, I suspect the ethical issue of what form of life we are comfortable feeding upon is not entirely new (as Skip’s comment above notes, Buddhists have long taught that all life feeds on other life) but is a luxury in which only those with a regular and reliable supply of food can afford to indulge. I seriously doubt this issue would ever arise for anyone struggling to survive on a daily basis. Likewise, for those who make their living and feed their families from animals and the land. Privilege and consciouness come with the price of a conscience, which, in turn, births guilt, shame and compassion. Luckily, these things also motivate social action and change.
I’ve never seen Portlandia, but it sounds like something I’d get a kick out of!
Thanks for writing. I think I’m playing better with my new guitar pick! 🙂
Jeannie, when you come to our house you’ll see rocks placed all around the house in various places…I put them there and I know what they mean…to me, at least. They’ve never spoken to me audibly but they do speak to me in ways that perhaps only I understand, but that’s okay, at least I understand, and they make me happy because I know they are so much older and wiser thanI am! I love you, sweet friend, Vangie
If it’s meaningful to you, that’s all that matters. You are another one of those nice people who does nice things, bringing pleasure to all who know you. Love, Jeanie
Its an ongoing debate in my ethical body but….I eat it, I don’t feel guilt. I do eat it in awareness of its murder. I believe we are evolving at our own rate. This is one reason we bless our food before consuming it. I have spoken with rocks, trees and teddy bears, so yes I really do agree that everything has consciousness.
Thanks for sharing.
Sindy
And thanks for visiting, Sindy. Yes, an ongoing debate with no clear answers. Another price of consciousness: tolerating the tension between opposites without trying to escape in pat answers.